Saturday, 15 March 2014

Barriers to a Successful Marriage

(1) Wrong Foundation: most marriages are based on wrong foundation; many people got married because of money: position, sex, beauty wealth, gains, children etc. This is wrong, marriage should be based on God’s leading; love, Godly character, pure courtship, Godly counsel, divine wisdom, openness, Acceptance, motive, preparation, patience etc. Long lasting marriage needs a deep foundation, carefully prepare for a better effect, not shallow foundation, placed on ungodly virtues.
(2) Bad Character: Ungodly character like pride, anger, dirtiness, nagging, criticism, vengeance laziness, drunkenness, night crawling, stubbornness, strife, talkativeness, negative thinking etc, can all destroy marriage, hence, people with these kind of character should learn how to deal with themselves if they desire a better marriage.
(3) Unfaithfulness: People can be unfaithful to their spouses in two major areas, namely, sex and money, but the most difficult one to handle is the sexual unfaithfulness, it is called adultery or infidelity, this is wrong and unscriptural. Get all the sex you desire from your spouse, never make the mistake of sleeping around, what you are looking for outside is loaded in your spouse with security.
(4) Unforgiveness: No marriage can survive without forgiveness, couples should learn to forgive each other, for there will always be offense.
Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Hot and Sizzling Marriage, 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage, Before you say I Do, and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.
He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa’s Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.
Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and breakthrough for singles’ summit



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